My boyfriend is doing things that bother me during sexual intercourse. What should I do?
First off, it’s not you, it’s him! Don’t take it personally. It’s nothing to do with how he feels about you. If you get him to open up and talk about it, he’ll tell you that himself.
Remembet that men are very fragile about their ego. Negative sexual comments can haunt them for years. Even if you’re so frustrated, choose your words very carefully. Nasty comments will only make things worse. Encourage him to do certain things, tell him that it physically hurts when you do certain things. Make it sound that you say things out of love and care. Encourage the good things, show alternative to bad behavior.