Masturbation Addiction

Masturbation, or self-pleasuring, is a natural sexual act. Almost everyone has masturbated during the course of their life. The problem arises only if masturbation becomes an addiction. An addiction that would result in a lack of self-confidence, social isolation, or the feeling that your energy is low and wasted.

If you find that too frequent masturbation is negatively affecting other aspects of your life, you might want to consider that you are addicted to masturbation, and for this reason you would need a treatment programme. This treatment programme is a sort of CBT, that’s Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. It depends on changing the way you think, and you can start to apply it by yourself. The following tips will help you in the treatment of masturbation addiction.

Stop feeling guilty. Self-loathing and negative thoughts about yourself are the wrong way to think, they are the wrong feelings. Masturbation is normal. Almost all women and men have masturbated at some point in their lives. The point is that you should masturbate within a normal rate and in a harmless way.

Avoid all triggers that tempt you to masturbate. For example, avoid or minimize watching pornography. Ask a friend to delete porn movies from your computer. Set up anti-pornography applications, and type the passwords with your eyes closed, or ask a friend to do this for you. And finally, get rid of all your porn magazines.

If you usually prefer to masturbate in the bathroom, as soon as you get the desire to masturbate, change the water temperature. A cooler water degree will make you want to get out of the bathroom as soon as possible.

If you are in bed and you have the desire to masturbate, try doing something else. For example, jump out of the bed and do some push-ups. Or call a friend. Just try do get yourself distracted before you fall asleep.

During your free time, go out with your friends and do some activities with them, or if you’re staying with your family, watch movies and be sociable with them. Move with your computer to sit where your family is usually sitting, for example in the living room or in the kitchen, or when possible, leave the window or the door of your room opened, so that you always have the feeling that someone may see you if you masturbate. Try to volunteer and engage yourself in social activities to be always busy. Try to avoid being alone in the house.

Sports and physical activities will make you exhausted by the end of the day, and want to sleep. Sport a lot and stay active.

If you live alone, try to get a pet – not an elephant of course – so that you avoid the feeling of being lonely. And perhaps you can go for a walk whenever the urge comes.

Always consider that you have the ability to overcome the addiction problem. If you have relapsed, start over again. Don’t give up! You can do it in the end, even it if takes you years of trying.

Masturbate once a day and chose a good time and a good place. You have to be mentally relaxed, that’s very important, so that your erection would take a healthy period of time. And it’s also a good exercise for your penile muscles. Don’t masturbate in a violent or a painful way, as this will affect your relationship wit your future wife. Do it smoothly, slowly and softly. And you can use gel if you want. It’s healthier to get used to a smooth style that would be pleasant to your future wife.

Remember: The act of masturbation is not a sin. It is not a problem. The problem might only be with addiction. Don’t hate yourself or feel guilty, and be sure that you’re able to overcome masturbation addiction, and that you will, if you set your mind to it.

I wish you a healthy life! All the best!

Alyaa Gad